August 25th, 2009
Having a series of monogamous relationships before deciding to get married is the norm these days. At least two, if not three or four, generations have grown up watching their parents’ marriages come to an end. Some of those parents’ second and third marriages have also ended in divorce. Today, people get married later in their young adult years in an effort to avoid the pain and suffering they witnessed as children and teens.
In the meantime, adults of all ages do not remain celibate while they are searching for their one love in a lifetime. They have a series of monogamous relationships, each one likely filling a variety of personal and social needs until the right one comes along.
As a result, many people want to know how to end a long term relationship with love, grace, and dignity. If you want to make your relationship ending a loving one, I have good news for you. In your desire is the secret to how to do it. By having the desire to create a loving ending, you are already taking responsibility. That is important because the way you create a loving end to any relationship is to take 100% responsibility for what you created in that relationship.
Now, taking that level of responsibility for what you created in the relationship goes beyond the common defense of, “It’s not you it’s me.” That statement never made anyone feel better, neither the giver nor the receiver! It’s really just a cop out for when you want out as quickly and painlessly as possible.
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Tags: Ending Relationships, Long term relationships
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August 1st, 2009
Recently my good friend Robert Camp and I were discussing the moon connection, as defined in the Love Cards, as the most important connection indicating the potential for a successful romantic relationship. One advantage to this connection is that it tends to have the couple moving in the same direction. This is especially significant with 2 powerful individuals. Notice in the list below that both partners in most of these famous couples are powerful in their own right.
In this connection the person in the “sun” postion energetically has the lead and the individual in the “moon” position is the follower. The moon tends to want to follow, nourish and support the sun.
This combination obviously only works if the individual in the sun position wants to lead and the individual in the moon position is willing to follow and wants to go where the sun is leading.
Take a look below at a few famous couples that have at least one Moon connection:
- Brad Pitt & Angelina Jollie (2 moon connections) (Look at a Love Card report to see why this relationship was fated to be)
- Antonio Banderas & Melanie Griffith
- Ringo Star & Barbara Bach (3 moon connections)
- Roy Rogers & Dale Evans (2 moon connections)
- Juan Peron & Eva Peron (3 moon connections)
- John F Kennedy & Jacquelin Kennedy Onassis
- Gerald Ford & Betty Ford
- Will Smith & Jada Pinkett Smith
- Franklin Roosevelt & Eleanor Roosevelt
- Elizabeth Taylor & Richard Burton
- Humphrey Bogart & Lauren Bacall
- Hume Cronyn & Jessica Tandy
- Edward VIII & Wallis Simpson (2 moon connections)
- Diego Rivera & Frida Kahlo
- John Travolta & Kelly Preston (3 moon connections)
- Bill Clinton & Hillary Rodham Clinton
Here’s a few couples that do not have this connection:
- Tim Robbins & Susan Sarandon
- Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russel
- John Lennon & Yoko Ono
If you’d like to know if you have a moon connection with a loved one, a Love Card report can be a powerful tool for assisting you in understanding the dynamics in your relationships whether with a romantic partner, friend, family member or business associate. Get more information here.
Tags: Celebrities
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July 23rd, 2009
My son Rama arrives home this evening from South Africa after a serious bout with malaria. He had entered the hospital in Cape Town on the Sunday prior to his scheduled departure after a 2 month adventure wandering around South Africa, Botswana, Mozambique and probably other places I’m not aware of and having experiences I may not even want to know about.
This was by no means his first intense foreign country experience and will certainly not be his last. How do I as a fairly normal parent feel about that? (Normal perhaps only in the sense of wanting my children to be safe and secure and without suffering…)
There is a line in the Bhagavad Gita where Lord Krishna is exhorting a reluctant Arjuna as a renown warrior to fight in the battle of good versus evil. He says, “Better to die in one’s own dharma than to live in another’s.” (Dharma is commonly defined as the path that upholds evolution or the individual’s highest soul purpose.)
Because of my knowledge of the Destiny Card system, I am aware of my children’s basic natures and I realize how important it is that they live those natures fully and in their highest expression in order to be fulfilled and to progress in this lifetime. What’s important is their soul’s desires for them rather than mine. And the Destiny Cards give me insight to their strengths, weaknesses and soul’s desires and as to how best support these.
Whatever my son’s experiences and this was a tough one, I can rest in the knowledge that he is living in his dharma.
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July 7th, 2009
In an earlier blog entry, The Destiny Cards & Soul Mate Compatibility, I discussed the 3 significant ways in which the Destiny Cards could benefit you as you create an ideal relationship. These were:
- Understanding yourself at a deep level
- Understnding your partner at a deep level
- Understanding the dynamics of your relationship
Now you can get FREE information about yourself to begin to better understand yourself in relationships. Although the information you would receive from a Consultation with me would go much deeper, this free info is a great place to begin with the basics. It certainly gives you a place to get started.
In addition, it is so easy to use that you can also plug in the birth date of the person you are in relationship with to better understand who he or she is in life and relationship.
Click here or on the FREE Birth card relationship Reading graphic in the right column to get your free Birth card reading.
Tags: free reading, free relationship reading
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June 16th, 2009
On our morning walk, Sarah Elizabeth and I were discussing why men go to their caves. Well, that’s my term for it when I just need space to be with myself. Every man has his own way of going to his cave. It’s expression can range from getting lost in a sports broadcast to fishing to just shutting an office door. However it’s expressed, a women usually gets the idea pretty fast even if her man is around since he won’t look up for anything short of a Chinese gong. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: Dr pat Love, Dr Scott Haltzman, gender differences
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May 2nd, 2009
I come from the possibility that anyone can create an ideal relationship. A recent guest on our pod cast, Margie Warrell, made it clear how important courage is to the process of creating an ideal relationship.
In order to create one with someone else, you have to begin by creating an ideal relationship with yourself. This process takes tremendous courage! There is much about ourselves we’d rather not face. But this is the part of us that bites us on the butt in relationships…the part that sabotages intimacy and commitment.
Rather than wax on philosophically about the point I’m trying to make, listen to our conversation with Margie as she helps us explore the courage it takes to be authentic, real, and intimate in our romantic (or any other) relationship. In the meantime, at some point today stop and tell you, “I love you,” allowing your courage to rise up and meet the fear that would have you laugh at the thought!
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Tags: courage, Margie Warrell, self love
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May 1st, 2009
To love or not to love is a matter of the heart. Love is an expression of the heart. But one thing I’ve learned in the last decade working with individuals in the area of relationships is that the will is critical to maintaining the relationship – maintaining the love.
I recently learned of a couple who were floundering in despair, headed for divorce. As a couple, they had lost their way. But it was also clear they had lost their will to maintain the relationship. Their relationship had disintegrated to where both of them felt deeply victimized by the other. They had lost their will to maintain the love (they had lost their will to stay in love) and in losing it, they had lost their way. Read the rest of this entry »
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April 21st, 2009
Recently Sarah Elizabeth and I had the opportunity to visit with my very good friend Robert Camp on our weekly podcast. Robert is a highly successful author, teacher and entrepreneur. He developed the Cards of Destiny as we know them today! Listen in as he discusses the Destiny Cards and how this fascinating system can assist individuals in creating ideal relationships.
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April 20th, 2009
Until I was in my mid-fifties, most of the significant problems in my life I perceived to be caused by women. I felt that they were always competing with me, attempting to mother me and smother me, even trying to direct my life force. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: self discovery, self love
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