I am a mama’s boy / daddy’s girl relationship expert who has had the pleasure and privilege of studying The Cards of Your Destiny. Married to one of the counselors and founders of the Magi Fellowship, I have access to knowledge of the cards immediately following most of our mutual social interactions as well as shortly after any interaction I have with someone when my husband, Joseph, isn’t around. Between our combined knowledge of the Cards and that of the mama’s boy / daddy’s girl dynamics, we have some juicy and enlightening conversations that help us better understand our world and the people who fill it!
Recently, the combination of relationship expert and student of the Cards came together in an unusual way. I attended a seminar given by a man who has a Jack of Hearts birth card, which is moon to my Queen of Hearts birth card. During meals and other down times during the seminar, the sun / moon dynamic between us would kick into gear and I found it confusing. Either I don’t have many men in my life who are moon to me or I have so many mama’s boys in my life that I couldn’t distinguish what was going on between me and this Jack of Hearts whom I held as my superior. He was, after all, the seminar leader and I was a participant.
Sitting across from each other at a couple of meals, whenever I spoke, I held his attention in a way that, if I’d been less mature, I would have found to be a heady experience. I would have wondered if he were attracted to me and, at the very least, would have felt quite arrogant and proud that I held sway over the man running the show!
Instead, I paid attention to the discomfort it caused me, reminding myself that he was moon to me and that I might be experiencing this kind of connection for the first time. To compare, whereas Joseph is moon to me, it is a karma card to karma card connection. More importantly, my Queen of Hearts birth card is moon to his King of Hearts birth card – a much more powerful connection. A position I am very comfortable with. This Jack of Hearts is moon to me twice! His birth card is moon to my birth card and his planetary ruler is moon to my planetary ruler. Additionally, in all our other connections the energy is either flowing from him to me or we are Venus to each other.
Anyway, I’m not moon to him at all. As a woman who is much more comfortable being moon to any man she admires, experiencing this connection and being unable to blame it on mama’s boy / daddy’s girl dynamics was intense for me. Even now, pulling up the Love Cards to look at the connections first between this Jack of Hearts and me and then Joseph’s King of Hearts and me, I feel myself relax in the company of Joseph’s and my Love Cards!
Fortunately, not only are Joseph and I happily married but so are the Jack of Hearts and his wife. In another time and place and under different circumstances, our card connections could lead to mischief, heartbreak, or a crazy amount of joy, depending on the context of the relationship.
This experience is an example to me of many things concerning The Cards of Your Destiny. First of all, it is an amazing tool for understanding the world and the people in it! Secondly, it helps with perspective. If you’re looking for a good time, you can use the cards to hook up with someone you’ll have a hell of a good time with; and you can determine ahead of time whether that will be for just one night or a lifetime. But if you’re in a stable relationship and you don’t want to shatter it, the Cards can help you understand why energy moves between you and others the way it does so that you keep it on the level of something flattering without letting it wreck your life and the lives of those you love.